The gift of love.

Giving and receiving gifts, whether big or small, is a beautiful way to show love beyond words. A gift is more than just an object—it’s a personal message that says, “You are special.” It can be something practical or something that simply adds beauty to someone’s life.

The joy of receiving a gift is unmatched. Opening a package is like unwrapping a heartfelt message from someone dear. It could be a handwritten card that reminds you someone cares, a bag of sweets to brighten your day, or a book filled with new possibilities.

Do you have a special friend, partner, or loved one? Perhaps there’s an item that always makes you think of them, or maybe you’ve come across a project or craft that would be perfect to create just for them.

I love making gifts—it’s one of my favorite ways to express love and appreciation. Over the years, I’ve sewn clothes, designed cards, crafted signs, and even baked delicious treats. There’s something truly special about sharing your talents to create something meaningful for someone else. And what better way to show love than through a handmade gift?

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, here are some simple and thoughtful homemade gift ideas you can make today!

Gift one: Candy gift bag

Small gift bags helps to deliver your gift to a teacher, volunteer, or friend. They can be big or small. These gift bags I created are small gift bags that are perfect for a volunteer or teacher. They are easy to make and you can put any small thank you inside. They are perfect for anytime of the year, but ideal for Valentine’s Day.

Items needed:

• small gift bag- red and white

• old book pages, music pages, or accent color page

• round thank you note

• glue

• scissor

• candy

• tape

Instructions:

1. first fold one long side of the bag in half.- do not use the already folded side. You want to use the “front” of the bag. You want to fold it from the top to the bottom.

2. Draw half of a heart. Once you have drawn half of the heart you want to cut the heart out. Then lay the bag out carefully.

3. Take your accent paper, I used old hymnal pages, and cut a small rectangular that is slightly bigger than your heart. You will glue the accent paper on the inside of the bag.

4. Then print a copy of the round thank you notes. Cut out the round thank you note.

5. Fill the bag with your treat. I used Lindor round chocolate pieces to fill my bags. Then fold the bag shut.

6. You will tape the top shut and glue the round thank you not over the top of the tape.

You now have an adorable thank you gift for your volunteer.

The thank you round I used is here for you to use.

Gift two: Cards

Making a homemade card is one of the most precious things to do. The best part all it takes is a printer, piece of paper, and a little bit of imagination. Anyone, any age is able to create a heartfelt card to give to a friend. The other added detail is to send it in the mail.

I remember as a child I really enjoyed receiving mail in MY name. It was exciting. It made me feel special. Today we do not always send a card in the mail. We shoot someone a text or call them to say “hi” or you are a great friend. Taking the time to make a card and send it in the mail let’s someone know they are a really special someone.

Items needed:

• Paper or cardstock- I use cardstock from Amazon

• colored paper

• variety of paper

• colored pens

• scissors

• glue

• envelope

• stamp

Instructions:

1. Take your paper or cardstock and fold it in half. You can fold it long ways or short ways. It does not matter. What matters is that when you fold your paper you either get a short fat card or a tall skinny card. Your choice.

2. Take your colored paper and decide how you want to decorate your card. Personally, I have a variety of printed out decorative paper that I use when I am making ,my cards. Then I use the color paper to accent the design. Once you have cut out your paper to what you want you will glue it on the front and inside of the card. (see the example below.)

3. Once you have decorated the outside of the card you can decide how you want the inside decorated. You can use more paper or you can just add a quote, saying, or verse.. Once you have finished decorating the card you are going to sign the card with a personal message.

4. Address your envelope with the persons address in the middle of the envelope. You will put your address in the top left corner. Then place a stamp in the top right corner.

5. Viola! You are done. Make sure to drop that card in the mail tonight.

Gift three: Heart shaped sachet

I love things that smell sweet. Something that you can place in your drawer, or hang from a door. This type of gift is called a sachet. My grandmother had a few of them. They were either in a drawer or laying on top of her dresser drawers in her room. As a child I loved to go in her room, and smell them. The sachets always smelled sweet. In a way they now remind me of my grandmother and the times I spent at her house.

This is a gift I love to give to friends. In a way I am giving a piece of my grandmother, and the joy I found in her home. Here is the instructions for you, so you can have a piece of her in your home.

Items needed:

• paper bag

• outline of a heart

• floral napkins

• scissors

• packing paper or stuffing

• essential oils- floral scent like Lavender or Bergamot

• glue

Instructions:

1. Take your paper bag and draw or trace two large hearts.

2. With the floral napkins rip them apart so you only have the thin top layer. Rip the napkin into sections. Glue the sections on to the two large hearts.

3. Glue the plain sides together leave one side unglued. This is important because this is where you will “stuff” your heart.

4. Stuff your heart with either stuffing or packing paper or newspaper.

5. Drop 12 drops of essential oils into the inside of your heart.

6. Glue the last side together.

7. If you want to make this a hanging sachet, punch a whole at the top of the heart. Then tie a thin ribbon or string through the whole.

Now you are done. Share this with a friend or loved one. When they smell the pleasing scent they will think of you and your friendship.

Add a bit of love to your house

Making simple crafts to add some charm to your home is a delightful way to spend a free afternoon. With love in the air and February just around the corner, I’ve found a few fun and easy crafts that you (or your kids) can make this weekend to bring a touch of love to your space.

I’ve always enjoyed making Valentine’s cards and cutting out hearts—it’s been a cherished tradition for years. When our kids were younger, I often encouraged them to create their own Valentine’s cards instead of buying them. To me, crafting cards was far more enjoyable and meaningful than purchasing them.

I also love decorating with garlands or festive shapes that celebrate the holiday of the month. These small touches help bring the season to life and add a fresh variety to your home. Plus, making your own decorations and cards not only showcases your creativity but also helps you save money.

Heart Garland:

Adding a bit of garland to any part of your house is a wonderful idea to add some texture and variety to your home. I have found that making a festive garland can full fill these needs. The best material for these garlands is colored paper, old books, old hymnal, or other festive paper. Personally, I have a stash of old hymnals that I have been using for fun paper crafts. I felt this was the perfect craft for these pages.

I encourage you go to and look to see what you have. You may have an old book or some bright colored paper, either way gather up your paper and you can start making your heart garland right way.

List of supplies:

• paper- colored, pages from books, holiday paper, or old hymnals

• twine or white heavy thread

• scissors

• hole punch or heart-shaped hole punch

Instructions:

Step 1: gather your supplies. If you are using an old book or an old hymnal you will want to rip out the pages.

Step 2: Take your paper and cut it down to 6” x 8” in size. Once you have your paper cut down to size, fold all of your pages in half. I prepped 12 pages.

Step 3: Cut out your hearts. I did not draw my hearts out. I cut my first own by “eyeballing” the shape. Then I used the first one as a template for the rest.

Step 4: Punch out your holes. I punched my holes out towards the top of my heart. You can punch them at the top, towards the bottom, or the middle. It is up to you.

Step 5: Cut your string. I cut my string approximately 14-16 inches long. This gave me enough length to tie off my string when I start putting the garland together.

Step 6: Put your garland together. Now it is time to assemble your garland. You will want to tie one string in the left hole of each heart. Once you have the strings tied, line up your hearts. You will want to tie the other end of the string to the right hole of the next heart. See the picture for clarification. Once you have tied all your hearts together, the first heart on the right side will need one more string tied to the right hole.

Step 7: Hang your garland. Now that your garland is done, you can hang your creation and enjoy!

Heart Shape Garland 2:

There is never enough heart shaped garland in my world! That is what I say, but if you were talk to my hubby he would probably say something different.

I have found two different heart shaped garlands this year and both are adorable. This second garland is just as easy, if not easier, than the first one. You will need 12 x 12 craft size paper for this to work. You may use 8.5 x 11. I am sure if you will get the same results.

List of Supplies:

• 12 x 12 craft paper- 3 different colors (red, pink, and white)

• scissors

• stapler and staples

Instructions:

Step one: gather your paper. Make sure to cut off any edges or company information that might be on the edge of the paper.

Step two: fold your paper in half and cut it down the middle. You should have two strips that are approximately 6 inch by 12 inch.

Step three: Fold you paper in half on the long side again. Make a mark every 1 inch along the fold.

Step four: Cut your strips. You will cut at the 1 inch mark you made. You should have approximately 11 strips.

DO NOT UNFOLD!

Step five: Continue steps two through five until you have cut all of your paper.

Step six: Take the first strip and bend the top pieces together making a heart shape. Staple the inside- see the photo below.

Step seven: Take the strip and place it in the top of the heart you stapled- make a second staple so they are joined. - see the photo below.

Step eight: continue to work through step six and seven until you have joined all of your strips together.

Step nine: Once you are done you can hang or lay out your hearts to enjoy!

New Year New Season

As I sit at my desk looking out the window, it is a beautiful sunny day. I know if I were to step outside the door it would be freezing cold. I also know that it is almost the end of January! Can you believe it, the end of January? This year has started out with a bang and has not stopped. There is so much going on in this world. There is a part of me that would like to start the year over since it is JUST the end of January. But it is not possible.

Even though the year has started off a little off, we can try to look forward to a better day. Each day gives us an opportunity to start again or keep going. Each day is a new beginning in a way. The sun comes up and the day starts. This gives us a chance to make a choice. We, I say we but I really mean me, can continue to make the same choices or I can change the choices I make.

That is when I came to the realization I wanted to look at my year differently. I wanted to look at my year with intention. I wanted to rise every morning with the intent to live each day to the fullness that God has given me. That is hard. I am not going to lie. It has been hard these past 20-plus days to try and live my life, I guess you might say, better. I am trying to get up each morning and live the life God intended for me.

That is where this journal comes into play. Last year, through December I came to realize to live an intentional life I need to sit down and playfully decide what that life will look like. What are the changes I need to make? What aspects of my life in 2024 can I keep and what aspects do I want to change? What goals do I want to set? What stuff do I want to get rid of?

These questions kept rattling around in my head until I sat down and put them into a journal, the New Year New Season journal. It was something I knew I could start on January 1st or I could start on March 15th. It is a journal I can keep near me and revisit, not just as a reference but as a work in process. The truth is we never are finished with our journey. Each day is a new day in our journey of life. With this journal, it has become my guide in that journey. And who doesn’t need a guide? I know I do.

“Three Rules of Work: Out of clutter find simplicity. From discord find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

— Albert Einstein

When I started the year, I looked around my house and realized that part of the feeling I have of being overwhelmed is coming from the clutter that surrounds me. I knew that for me to find a level of peace in our home and in my life, I would need to tame the clutter beast. I knew I needed to begin there. I listed off the chores I needed to get done and catch up on. I made a list of items that I needed to get rid of. Next, I went through my kitchen deciding what healthy food we need and what processed food I can get rid that is clogging both our minds and bodies.

This is still in process. If you were to come into my house you would see Christmas decorations still up, and the house a bit dirty. My life working full time can be a bit chaotic. The time to get all the tasks done is sometimes hard to find. Like I keep saying over and over, it is a work in process.

““Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.””

— William Penn

There are days I manage my time well and there are days it doesn’t go so well. I knew starting out this year, that if I was going to move forward whether it was an inch or a mile, I needed to get my time and how I used my time under control. I needed to get a realistic view on our current schedule, what we wanted to add to our schedule, and what we needed to take out of our schedule to help us manage our time better.

Not knowing what you are going to be doing overtime means you will lose track of your time. Before you know it, it is the end of the day and you feel like you have not accomplished a thing. Yes, it does take time to write down what you have planned for the day, what you want to accomplish in your day, and what your goals are. It is time well spent.

“The future goal is the things that produces character in the present.”

— N.T. Wright

Goals are worth having. But unset goals, or unwritten goals gets you nowhere. I have learned this last year that it is time to write down my goals. No matter what that goal is, how big or small, a bit of work each day will get me closer to that goal.

Goals are worthwhile work. That is why I put them on paper where I can reflect upon my goals, both from last year and for the coming year. If I want to conquer the new mountains that God has for me, than I need to set write those mountains down.

““The work of a mother is hard, too often unheralded work. Please know that it is worth it then, now, and forever.””

— Jeffrey R. Holland

As women, we wear so many hats: wives, mothers, daughters, friends, caretakers. To meet the needs of those around us, we also need to take care of ourselves. Balancing work, home, and family can be exhausting, but when we carve out time for each area intentionally, we can create a more peaceful, purpose-filled life.

For me, that has meant re-evaluating how we manage our home, spend our time, and work toward our family goals. By doing this, we can make time to truly enjoy one another and work together as a team.

Intentional Choices:

This year, I’m choosing intention. I want to lean into my faith, mark my path, and live each day with purpose. By year’s end, I want to look back knowing I made intentional choices for my home, time, family, and more.

I’d love for you to join me on this journey. I’ll be sharing more here and on my podcast about living intentionally. Let’s encourage one another along the way!

You can also download a free version of my New Year, New Season journal through the link below. If you’d like the extended version, it’s available on my Etsy shop, Sew Abundant Shop.

I would love to hear your thoughts on your new year. Share with what goals you have set and what changes you are hoping to make.

For now, enjoy that cup of coffee and I will see you next time!

Tomato Soup and more

As the weather drops, I begin to yearn for a good hot bowl of soup paired with a grilled cheese sandwich. It’s the ultimate meal to warm both the belly and soul—my favorite cold afternoon lunch.

Growing up, my mom would often make tomato soup and grilled cheese for me. At the time, it wasn’t my favorite meal, but it filled me up and kept me warm, which was good enough. She used Campbell’s tomato soup, Wonder Bread, and Velveeta cheese for the sandwich. If you were a child of the 1980s, you’ll probably remember those lunches. They were simple yet comforting, especially after an afternoon of playing in the snow.

Fast forward to today, and I’ve discovered there’s so much more to the world of soup than canned Campbell’s. Homemade tomato soup is now my go-to—packed with vegetables, creamy fats, and rich flavors. The best part? I can sneak in veggies my husband doesn’t like to eat!

The grilled cheese sandwiches I grew up with were made with Wonder Bread and Velveeta cheese, but as I got older, I found myself gravitating toward sharp cheddar and exploring other cheeses. When my kids were growing up, I loved experimenting with grilled cheese by trying different cheeses and using real butter. My daughter took it a step further, adding her own creative twists. This opened our world of grilled cheese to endless possibilities.

Today, my version of this classic lunch has evolved into a flavorful celebration. I make tomato soup from scratch, incorporating nutrient-packed vegetables and rich fats. The grilled cheese sandwiches, on the other hand, are no longer just bread and cheese; they’re layered creations featuring proteins, cheeses, and even vegetables like avocado.

Below is my go-to tomato soup recipe, a favorite in our home. I’ve also included ideas for garnishes and sandwich additions to inspire your creativity.

I also want you to know that I have added both sugar and baking soda to my Tomato Soup recipe. This is to cut some of the acidity in your Tomato soup. People who have acid reflux or just has trouble with high acidity food will find this comforting to them. I know my husband does.

Tomato Soup Garnishes

• Goldfish crackers

• Shredded cheese

• Sour cream

• Chives

• Salsa

• Crumbled crackers

• Pepperoni

• Avocado

• Pickles or hot pickles

Grilled Cheese Sandwich Additions

• Ham

• Turkey

• Bacon

• Any type of cheese

• Pickles or hot pickles

• Avocado

• Tomatoes

• Peppers

• Butter

• Mayo spread

I’ve also included my mayo spread recipe, perfect for adding richness to your sandwich. Some of my family aren’t fans of it, but I love the extra flavor it brings.

Here are your recipes!

Enjoy creating your own comforting combinations and making new memories with this timeless lunch!

Large Snow/star Project

I love snow. I love the way it looks, the way it smells, and especially the way the world sounds when it snows. Everything becomes so peaceful. When I look out my window and see snow falling, I’m filled with joy and peace all wrapped into one.

Each year, I enjoy making snowflakes and “stars” to decorate my home and workplace. I’ll spend an hour or two cutting shapes from white paper or brown-and-white paper bags. It’s fun, relaxing, and a cherished tradition. When my kids were young, we’d cut out snowflakes together and hang them on the windows. Even if we didn’t see a single snowflake outside, we could enjoy our paper snow inside. It was simple, joyful, and brought a bit of magic to our home.

A couple of years ago, I learned how to make three-dimensional snowflakes—sometimes called stars. I still call them snowflakes, even when I make them with brown paper bags. They add a cozy charm to our home and bring me joy whenever I see them hanging up. Even without real snow, I can enjoy the beauty of my handmade creations.

This is a project for all ages. It’s perfect for a cozy evening watching Christmas movies or listening to holiday music. These decorations can stay up long after the holidays—into January, or even February, if you’d like.

And let me say it one more time:

I LOVE SNOW!

Let’s make some snowflakes-

Supplies Needed:

• 6 to 12 lunch-size or smaller brown paper bags.

• 8.5x11 white paper

• scissors

• hot glue and hot glue gun

• tape

Directions for paper snowflakes:

1. fold the white paper into a square. This means taking one corner of the 8.5 paper and folding it to the opposite side. You should have approximately 1.5” of paper on the bottom. Cut that strip off.

2. Fold the white paper in half two more times. See the photos below to see how the folds look.

3. Cut into your white paper. You can cut triangles or swishes. You can also use a hole punch to punch holes in the middle. There is no right or wrong way to cut the edges. The most important thing is not to cut all of the folded edges! If you cut all of the folded edges your star will fall apart.

4. Unfold your paper. you now have a star!

5. Do you remember that piece of white paper? Now you can do the same steps with the small piece of white paper and make a small star. You can also cut your paper in half and cut out med. stars the same way we cut out the big star.

Pictures of the steps that are for the paper snowflake.

Directions for paper bag snowflakes/stars:

1. Count out 6 bags. Take one bag and fold it in half. Cut the center of the bag out. Unfold the bag and cut the edge of the bag either in a triangle or circle. Repeat this with all 6 of your bags.

2. Once all the bags are cut you are going to glue your bags together. Please note: If you are younger have an adult or older teen help you with the hot glue gun. Heat up your hot glue gun. Once it is heated you will glue the six bags together. Set them aside and let the stack of bags cool.

3. While the bags are cooling take a piece of twine and cut it approximately 6 to 10 inches long. The length of the twine will depend on how low or high you want your snowflake to hang.

4. When the bags are cooled slowly unfold your stack. You will want the bottom bag to meet the top bag. Add some hot glue to the top of the stack and place one end of the twine on top of the glue. Then press the bottom bag onto the top. See the pictures to see how that works.

5. Once the last bit of hot glue is cooled you are done and ready to hang your snowflake.

Pictures of the steps you follow to make a three dimensional snowflake.

I hope you can enjoy a cozy evening of making snowflakes. This is a wonderful way of creating memories with your family no matter the age. So pop on a Christmas movie, pop some popcorn, and start making snow!

Planning for Christmas

Finding Joy Beyond the Holiday Hustle

Do you ever feel like you're falling behind during the holidays? I know I do. Every December, it feels like an inner perfectionist monster emerges, pushing me to do it all. I want the decorations to be picture-perfect, every corner of the house filled with Christmas cheer. I dream of baking every kind of cookie imaginable, covering the kitchen in sprinkles and holiday aromas. And the presents? Oh, they simply must be wrapped in a way that turns heads and inspires awe!

Then there are all the holiday events—the parades, light displays, and festive gatherings. It’s as if every invitation whispers, You can’t miss this, it’s part of the magic! The list of to-dos piles up so high that I often end up overwhelmed, wondering how on earth I’ll manage to do it all.

But here’s the truth: These expectations aren’t realistic. The hustle and bustle that surrounds us during the holidays can steal our joy if we let it. The healthier choice—the better choice—is to slow down, take a breath, and let go of what doesn’t truly matter.

When I think about it, I know I’m not the only one feeling this way. Many of us are caught in the same cycle, trying to live up to impossible standards. But the truth is, none of us need that kind of pressure.

The most important moments of the holidays aren’t about flawless decorations, perfect cookies, or jaw-dropping gift wrap. They’re about spending time with loved ones and savoring the joy of the season. When we focus on what truly matters—our family, our faith, and the joy of being together—our lives take on a rhythm of peace. It’s a rhythm that looks less like the chaotic hustle of the world and more like a life we actually want to live.

This year, as I planned for Christmas, I decided to make joy a priority in our home. I wanted to embrace small, quiet moments—those cozy evenings when the world slows down, and I can simply sit back and savor the season. I realized I didn’t want the media’s version of a perfect Christmas to dictate how I celebrate.

Micheal, my rock, has always had this wonderful way of staying calm and grounded. For him, the hustle and pressure don’t even register—he just wants to enjoy the moment. This year, I wanted to follow his example.

And you know what? I’ve done it. I’ve embraced a slower, more joyful Christmas. I’ve found a sense of peace that comes from letting go of expectations and focusing on what matters. Sitting in my office now, I glance over at the Christmas tree. It’s not perfect—far from it. It’s small, humble, and decorated simply. But every time I see it, it reminds me of the joy this season is all about.

A Season of Hope, Joy, Peace, and Love

Christmas is so much more than a to-do list or a flurry of activity. It’s a season of hope, joy, peace, and love. When I stopped worrying about perfection—about impressing others or meeting impossible standards—I found I could embrace the true gifts of the season.

God offers us these gifts daily, if we’re willing to receive them. Hope that shines even in uncertainty. Joy that fills our hearts in the simplest of moments. Peace that calms the chaos around us. Love that reminds us we’re never alone.

I want to encourage you to embrace those gifts this season. Let go of the hustle. Trust that what you’ve planned, what you’ve prepared, is enough. You don’t need the perfect home, eye-catching gifts, or a feast worthy of a magazine spread. All you need is the true spirit of Christmas: Christ.

Resources to Help You Slow Down

To help ease your mind during the holidays, I’ve created a free PDF guide that I hope will bring you peace and encouragement.

If you’re looking for something more, I’ve also put together a full Christmas Planner available in my Etsy store. This planner is designed to help you stay organized while keeping your focus on what truly matters—making space for joy, peace, and love this season.

Finding Hope

Hope

Hope. A word so often spoken, yet sometimes misunderstood. True hope is having confidence in something unseen—trusting that it will come to pass, even if the when and how remains a mystery. Hope is a defining theme of the Christmas season: the hope of Christ, the hope of a New Year, the hope of a life yet to unfold.

In Luke 1, we find a profound story of hope and purpose. This chapter recounts the birth of John the Baptist and the miraculous conception of Jesus. Three central figures—Elizabeth, Mary, and Zechariah—are each called by God for a specific purpose, a purpose that ultimately brings salvation to the world through His Son.

The story begins with the angel Gabriel’s visit to Zechariah in the temple. Gabriel announces to Zachariah that he and his wife, Elizabeth, though advanced in years, will have a son named John. John is destined to prepare the way for God’s Son. Later, Gabriel visits Mary, declaring that she has found favor with God and will bear a son named Jesus. The chapter concludes with Mary visiting Elizabeth, and together they rejoice in the favor and blessings of the Lord. It closes with the birth of John the Baptist, the one to make way for the hope to come, the Savior of the world.

In this chapter, we see two distinct responses to Gabriel’s message. Zechariah, upon hearing the promise of a child, doubts:
"How can I be sure of this? I am an old man, and my wife is well along in years." (Luke 1:18)
Mary, on the other hand, responds with curiosity and trust:
"How will this be," Mary asked the angel, "since I am a virgin?" (Luke 1:34)

Two similar messages. Two very different responses. This contrast prompts an important question: How do I respond to God’s message in my life?

When faced with a glimpse of hope or the possibility of something new, do we embrace it with faith and a willingness to move forward? Or do we shrink back in doubt, questioning its plausibility?

A few years ago, I found myself wrestling with these questions. I was working part-time at my church in a challenging environment that lacked peace and stability. I felt called to move on, to step into a full-time position with more responsibilities, but fear held me back. I prayed repeatedly for direction, yet my situation only grew more unsettled, affecting not just my work but my home life as well.

At one point, my husband gently suggested that perhaps God was trying to tell me something. I resisted, insisting that I just needed to pray more and trust that things would improve. But they didn’t. The unrest persisted until I finally took a step of faith. I applied for a similar role at another church, and God opened a door. I walked through it, and my life began to change.

Looking back, I see that the hope I held wasn’t tied to a specific job or location. It was hope in a mighty God—the One who could bring peace to my soul and guide me to His purpose for my life. That’s what hope truly is: trusting in God’s ability to transform our circumstances or sustain us through them.

As I reflect on Mary’s song in Luke 1, I understand it more deeply now than ever before. Her words of praise remind us who God is—a Savior who faithfully provides for us as we walk the path He has set before us. I couldn’t have faced Mary’s path, but I can face the one God has given me, knowing He is with me every step of the way.

Mary’s song, often called the Magnificat, is a beautiful reminder of God’s faithfulness and His plan for redemption. Writing out scripture has become a way for me to find stillness and meditate on His Word. Below, I’ve shared a downloadable copy of a penmanship page of Luke 1:46-55 for you to use. I invite you to click the button below to download your own copy and reflect on these powerful words of hope and praise.

Start your day out right!

IF you are just looking for the simple version of my Morning Start and Evening End. The link is at the end of this article. OR you can click here.

Starting my day is one of the hardest things for me to do. I have my alarm set for 5:30 am and every time it goes off I hit the snooze and take another 10 minutes sleep. I wish I could say that I only do this once or twice, but in reality I do this at least 3 times. I have even set an alarm with my Alexa, and I still tell it to snooze when the alarm goes off at 6 am. I am terrible. Mornings are the worst for me.

What makes it even harder is trying to get all the chores done before I leave for work. Prior to getting a full time job I knew I had time, if I did not get up soon enough it was not a big deal. I could sleep until 7 am and I would still have time! Not any more.

When I started working full time I knew I needed to be ready and out the door a lot earlier than before. And when I say a lot earlier, I mean A LOT earlier! The unfortunate part it has been a challenge to find a way to get the chores done, be ready for work, and get to work on time. It truly has been a challenge.

After 3 months I figured it was time to do some research and find ways to improve my morning routine. I started reading articles on what to do, how to plan, and ways to improve my mornings. I found out there is more to just getting up early and getting stuff done. You need to plan, both your morning, your evening, your day basically. For you to have a better morning, you need to have a better night. I started planning

I found out that if I wanted to my mornings to improve I need to find a plan for my whole day. I needed to figure out what I am going to be doing the next day before the next day came.

Here are the steps I found out worked well.

1. Plan the night before: When I planned out my day the night before it gave me the opportunity to see what needed to be done. It allowed me to figure out what needed to be done, and what I wanted to get done. With that list complete I would know how much time I needed to complete my tasks.

2. Morning Start List: I created a list of chores that I wanted to accomplish each morning before I left for work. I posted that list on my refrigerator where I could see it as a reminder of what I wanted to get done before I headed out the door. It was also important that I put how much time each chore would take. Now I know this sounds a bit controlling, but knowing how long my chores all together will take helps me to know what time to get up in the morning. Or if it is realistic of me to accomplish the tasks I want to get done.

3. Evening End List: I also created a list of chores that I wanted to accomplish each evening. I also posted this list on my refrigerator where I could see it as a reminder of what I wanted to get done before I go to bed. Just as important as it is to know how much time it takes to get ready in the morning, I also need to know how much time it takes me to get ready for bed.

And what I put on my list is just as important.

1. Chores to help me be a better me: I know there people that don’t necessarily agree with the “me” time, but taking care of yourself is important. Taking the time to exercise, read, journal, and clean yourself help takes care of your body and your mind. And when you take care of your body and your mind you are able to take better care of your family and home.

2. Chore to help me plan: It is important to know what your plan is for tomorrow just as it important to know what your plan is for today. Taking 10 minutes in the evening to write down the chores that I want to accomplish the next day helps to know where my day is headed and to know how much needs to be done for that day. If there are errands to run or if there is something out of the ordinary that I need to accomplish.

3. Chore to help me take better care of home: Taking care of a home is a big responsibility there are many things that need to be taken care of whether on a daily, weekly, or monthly bases. There is almost always something that needs to be done. By having a plan, a list of tasks to be done on a daily, weekly, or monthly bases, taking care of a home is easier.

I know this might seem like a lot but it is not. In fact, I know this ideas helps so much I want to help you get started. Here is my simple PDF that I have used with both my Morning Start list, and my Evening End list. Or you can take a piece of paper and start with your own list. Think of the things/tasks that you would like to do each day before you go to work, and then the things/tasks you would like to do each day before you go to bed. Put that list somewhere you can see it. Then make a pack with yourself that you are going to do those tasks for the next 30 days. You will see a difference. I did!

The Simple Joys of a Bucket List

Embrace the Season: Creating a Fall Bucket List to Cherish the Simple Joys

As the leaves begin to turn and the air gets crisper, there’s a certain magic in the Fall season that beckons us to slow down and savor the simple pleasures of life. This year, I’ve decided to channel that energy into creating a Fall bucket list—a collection of activities and experiences that I want to enjoy before the season slips away. You might be wondering why I’d create yet another list when life already seems full of them. The reason is simple: having something to look forward to helps us live more intentionally.

Why a Fall Bucket List?

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s easy to let time slip by without fully enjoying the moments that make each season special. A Fall bucket list serves as a gentle reminder to pause and engage with the world around us. It’s about more than just checking off activities; it’s about creating memories, enjoying traditions, and spending quality time with loved ones.

Creating this list isn’t just about me—it’s about my family too. Part of living a simple and fulfilling life is making time for the things that bring us joy. By writing down the activities we want to do, we’re more likely to make them happen. It’s also a wonderful way to bring everyone together. As a family, we can share ideas, plan our weekends, and look forward to the adventures we’ll have together.

Planning Our Fall Adventures

Michael and I have already started brainstorming, and we’ve got a few events that we’re excited to include on our Fall bucket list. One of the highlights for us is always the local Oktoberfest.

For the past two years, Michael and I have made it a tradition to attend the Oktoberfest in our area. It’s become one of those special events that we look forward to all year. The festival is a delightful escape from our everyday routines. The lively music fills the air with a sense of celebration, and the aroma of delicious food beckons us from every corner. Michael, of course, enjoys sampling the variety of beers, while I indulge in some soda or a sweet cider. The festive atmosphere, combined with the crisp Fall air, makes it an experience we cherish.

But Oktoberfest is just the beginning. This year, I’m excited to add a trip to our local drive-in theater to the list. Drive-ins have a nostalgic charm that’s hard to resist, and we’re fortunate to have one close by. There’s something magical about watching a movie under the stars, bundled up in cozy blankets, with a big tub of popcorn in hand. It’s a simple, yet unforgettable way to spend an evening. Just last weekend, they screened The Goonies—one of my all-time favorite movies. It’s little moments like these that make Fall so special.

The Joy of Simplicity

As I put together our Fall bucket list, I’m reminded of the beauty in simplicity. Life doesn’t have to be filled with grand adventures or elaborate plans to be fulfilling. Sometimes, the most meaningful experiences are the ones that are closest to home—like a walk through the woods to admire the changing leaves, baking a batch of pumpkin spice cookies, or spending a quiet afternoon reading a good book by the fire.

This season, I encourage you to embrace the simplicity of Fall. Take a moment to think about the things that bring you joy and write them down. It could be as simple as carving pumpkins, making homemade apple cider, or having a cozy movie night. By planning these activities, you’re more likely to make time for them, and in doing so, create memories that will last long after the season has passed.

Creating Your Own Fall Bucket List

I’ve made a printable version of my Fall bucket list, which you’re welcome to use as inspiration for your own. You can find the link below. Whether you use mine or create your own, the important thing is to take the time to enjoy this wonderful season.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Visit a pumpkin patch and pick out the perfect pumpkin

• Take a scenic drive to admire the Fall foliage

• Host a cozy bonfire and roast marshmallows

• Make homemade applesauce or apple pie

• Go on a hayride or visit a corn maze

• Spend an afternoon crafting Fall decorations

• Try a new soup or stew recipe for a warm, hearty meal

• Plan a day trip to a nearby town or festival

• Have a picnic in the park with a thermos of hot cocoa

• Attend a local farmer’s market and pick up seasonal produce

Remember, the goal isn’t to pack your schedule with activities but to choose a few meaningful ones that bring you joy. By writing them down and planning when to do them, you’re giving yourself something to look forward to, and creating the space to savor these simple pleasures.

Making Memories

At the end of the day, what we’ll remember most about this season are the memories we create. Whether it’s laughing with loved ones at Oktoberfest, enjoying a cozy movie night at the drive-in, or simply taking a walk in the crisp Fall air, these moments are what make life rich and fulfilling.

So this Fall, take the time to slow down, plan some fun activities, and make memories that will last a lifetime. Whether you’re doing it with family, friends, or even by yourself, a Fall bucket list is a wonderful way to celebrate the season and all the joy it brings.

Fall Bucket List

Mother’s/Mom’s Day

Mother by definition is a woman in relation to her child or children. If you were to ask any woman who is a mother, the definition would be so much more. It is someone who has sacrificed a bit of them for the betterment of others.

Mothers are the ones who make the meals, wash the clothes, wipe the bottoms, dry the tears, help the boo-boos go away, and pray by your bedside at night.

Now, I know many dads do this too, but there is something about a mother. She is the one whose laughter can fill a room, whose stare can stop a train, and whose words can fill the gap. It is a mom who walks the floors from birth until eternity full of worry, fear, love, and prayers. Prayers for our futures, our pasts, and our days. It is a mom who walks beside us, defends us, and yet reprimands us for our good. It is a mom who loves us to the core no matter who we are.

I have been the one who needed the tears wiped away. I have been the one to walk the halls with worries on my mind and prayers in my heart. I am a daughter and I am a mother. From both, I have learned what it means to be a mom.

“Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.” —Dorothy Canfield Fisher

Over the past 37 years, I have learned what it means to be a mom. To be a mom to someone gifted to me, and to some I gave birth to is a profound honor. There is no other job in this world that can compare. Raising all of my kids was a journey that grew me into the adult I am today. It was a journey of growth. Neither is different in my mind. Both are treasured. All of them gave me laughter and tears, frustration, and delight. All four of my kids grew me into the mom I am today.

When I think about where I would be today without the influence of the many moms in my life, or without the experience of being a mom myself, it is hard to comprehend. It is their love, wisdom, and strength that shaped me into the adult I am today.

I know in my heart this is a job that is not for the faint of heart. It is a purpose that God gives to us to strengthen our faith. It is the opportunity to see God’s creation grow. It is the moment of sanctification for both ourselves and those around us.

1 Peter 3:4

You should be known for the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.

You never know the effect you may have on someone or what effect someone may have on you. God puts people in our lives at certain times to help us grow. Being a mom is not just about the biology of life, it is about the job of mentoring others. Being a mom never stops because of age or relationship. Being a mom means that you are willing to sacrifice a bit of yourself for the betterment of others. He puts those moms in our lives to show us Christ.

When we think about it moms are the ones who show us so much more. They show us how to be soft, how to love unconditionally, and how to protect at all costs. Moms are the ones who bring the sunshine into our homes and the twilight at night. To be a mom in any sense is to have the privilege to touch someone else life. I have had that privilege in every sense of the word.

I pray that the knowledge and influence given to me by other moms is something that I have passed on and can continue to pass on to others. I pray that being a mom to others has given them just a drop of what I have received from the moms in my life.

• “[Motherhood is] the biggest gamble in the world. It is the glorious life force. It’s huge and scary — it’s an act of infinite optimism.” — Gilda Radner

Mother is by definition a woman who is related to a child or children. We know that being a mom is so much more. It is the woman who prays every waking moment for their child’s future, faith, and growth. Being a mom means that you love even when your child is slightly unlovable. I am a mom. I am a daughter. It is an honor to be both. It is a challenge to be both.

There are 12 months, 52 weeks, and 365 days in a year. And it seems so funny that one of those days is set aside for moms, mothers, madras, and mas. I don’t think there is one day that I am not thankful for my mom. She has guided me, loved me, and raised me. My mom walked beside me when I was successful and comforted me when I fell. My mom is my cheerleader and my conscious. I would not be who I am today if it weren’t for my mom.

Many friends and mentors were and are my mom. These were women who loved me. They laughed with me. They taught me and prayed for me. These women were the ones who showed me what contentment meant. Who showed me what love meant. I would not be who I am today if it were not for these amazing women.

I am a mom. I have raised four kids. They have challenged me. We have laughed and cried. We have fought many battles. Some have been won and some were lost. We have prayed together and for each other. I would not be who I am today if it weren’t for my kids.

Today and many more days, I will honor my mom for the example she gave me. Today and many more days, I will remember my friends for the example they gave me. And for today I will take one moment to be proud to say I am a mom.

Growing your own jungle.

You need to consider your home, lifestyle, and needs as you begin to choose your living beauty. Plants are a wonderful addition to your home, but if you get a plant that demands attention and you do not have time, the plant will not survive. Or, if you are able to take the time to nurture your plants, then maybe you are able to be more adventurous. The best place to start is with your research. Research what will fit in your life and home.

Now that you have decided on your leafy friend, you will want to determine where your plant will stay. Some plants love to soak in the bright sun, while others prefer the shadows. It's important to research what is best for your leafy friend. If your plant is sensitive to light, you could end up browning the leaves. Conversely, if your plant needs sun but is in the shadows of your room, it might not produce flowers or flourish as well. Again, do your research. You need to know the optimal level of light your plant requires.

Your plant has its home, and now it needs a refreshing drink of water. Make sure you know how much your plant needs. There are drought-resistant plants that you can leave alone, or unfortunately forget about, for a while before you water them. Then there are plants that love a good drink on a regular basis. A beautiful orchid is one that does not need much water, whereas an Aloe loves to live in potting soil that is kept moist. It is important to know what your plants need. Remember, some plants are not as sensitive when it comes to their watering schedule, but overwatering can kill others in a heartbeat. One of the most common mistakes people make is overwatering their plants. So, make sure you do your research. Your plant will flourish from it.

“To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.”

— Audrey Hepburn

Here is a link to a chart of various plants and their light/water needs to get you started.

As you get to know your plant, there will be practices that come around with the changing seasons. In fall, your plant will be dormant, requiring less water and food. In fact, during fall, your plant will prefer to be placed in a warm place where it can rest until spring. Once spring arrives, your plant starts to wake up and requires a bit more care. This is the time of year when you will want to freshen up the soil, possibly repot your plant, move it closer to a window, and increase your watering. As you move into summer, you will want to add fertilizer to your schedule and continue to increase your watering for some of your plants. The most important part of the plant's seasonal life is to research your plant. Just as you need to know about its light and water needs, you also need to understand its seasonal needs.

To assist you with your plants, here is a free plant card. This will provide the information you need to care for your plant(s).

“You will learn how to take are of plants by failing at taking care of plants- there is no other way.- ”

— Trinity Wilburn

Plants are a wonderful addition to your home. They bring beauty and a breath of fresh air to your day. With the right information, you can start with one leafy friend and end up with a jungle of beauty to enjoy each day.

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Family Easter Egg Hunt

Spring time is a wonderful time to open your home, and hop out into your back yard for some fun family time. And what better way to do this than hunting eggs, specifically Easter eggs, but remember this hunt can be done at any time.

Don’t get me wrong I love a good Easter egg hunt. As a child I loved to hunt for Easter eggs. I still remember visiting my grandparents in the spring. And their small town would host an Easter egg hunt for all ages, even the adults. It was so much fun to run around that field grabbing as many eggs as I could. I still remember that feeling to this day!

The wonderful thing about memories, and spending time together is you can do it when it fits into your schedule or when you discover a new activity. There is nothing that says you can only do egg hunts at Easter time. Although it is much easier and a whole lot more fun when it is nice outside.

When our kids were little they loved hunting for things, whether it was inside or outside. Now mind you, just like in my childhood, egg hunts were also around Easter. And we have done them in so many different places, especially since there have been years that all we got was rain!

Doing egg hunts, or treat hunts is something you can plan at any time with anything. All you need is something to hide, somewhere to hide it, and a plan to make it happen. And that is what I am going to help you with today. Planting the seeds to plan a Easter Egg Hunt.

I have added a Easter Egg Planner for you to download and print for easy reference. You will also find a blank planner in the back to create your own Easter Egg Hunt, or whatever kind of hunt you want to create. Remember this is a starting point, a spring board you might say, to get you started. For now….

Let’s get started planning!

First you want to plan on a block of time, I would say about 2 hours, to put aside for the actual hunt. Make sure you are giving your kids time to hunt down all of the hidden gems, and not feel like they have to rush to find them. Although I can almost guarantee they will probably rush just to make sure they have all of those little gems you have hidden.

Second, decide what you want to hide. With this example I am going to use eggs, specifically Easter eggs. You can use anything that you can image, colored rocks, stuffed animals, or even notes that can lead them to another location.

Third gather and prepare all your supplies. I went and purchased plastic eggs, candy, and other surprised to use with my egg hunt. I also made Easter eggs with real eggs to add a bit of variety to our hunt.

Fourth you will prepare your hidden gems, and finish your other preparations for the big day. I filled my plastic eggs with small candy and pennies. I also made the colorful hardboiled eggs. Then I gathered up the “prizes” that the kids would be able to choose from after the hunt was done. This last bit is an extra. Buying or providing prizes is not something you need to do. Just putting small candy into the plastic eggs would satisfy any participate.

Lastly it is the big day! Gather all your gems, eggs, or whatever you are going to hide. If it is not raining outside, take your hunt outside. Find easy and hard places to place your “gems”. Make sure to keep in mind the age of the participants, your kids. You want to make the hunt a challenge but not such a hard challenge they cannot find the hidden “gems”. If it is raining don’t worry, move your hunt inside. To be honest my kids loved hunting for things in the house as much as hunting outside. And when you think about it there are sometimes more creative ways of hiding those “gems”.

The most important thing I can tell you is to have fun! This activity is a way for you to create a fun, challenging activity for your kids and their friends to do on any given day. It does not have to be perfect. All it has to be is fun.

The Smells of Winter.

Christmas has passed and away my tree went.  

We purchase a real Christmas tree each year. WE do this because my husband loves the smell of trees. I do too, but he really likes the smell of a real tree. He, well we both, think it smells like Christmas. But after this year I am kind of done. Having a real tree in your house is messy. And to be honest you have to be willing to water your tree or at least check your tree each day for it to stay healthy. There is way too much in this brain of mine to remember one more thing, watering the Christmas tree. I barely remember watering my house plants! (poor things) let alone remember what I am fixing for dinner! 

 So, this time of year, I welcome with open arms. We ardicate the Christmas tree from our house and I get to clean up the mess. Which means, things get a bit cleaner in our house. But the real reason I like this time of year is it gives me a chance to experiment with my oils to try and get that right smell that reminds us both of Christmas. This is all in hopes that someday we will ditch the real tree and own a lovely fake one that does not leave pine needles all over the floor and I have to try and remember to water the lovely thing before it dies. 

 Now I am sure there are some of you who love the real tree and will continue to go out, cut down the tree and put it in your house. More power to you! I am proud of you. Keep up the good work. But for me, personally, it is A LOT! With that said, my hope is that we can enjoy the smell of Christmas at any time, not just when we have a tree in our house. That we can sit by our woodstove and breathe in deep the smells of the season and not have to worry about another thing on the list.  

 There my rant is over. Now on to the recipes that I hope will bring the smells of the season into your home. 

 I want to share these recipes for winter season with you. I would love for you to try them and then let me know what you think. Some of them are tweaks of other recipes I have found and some of them are ones I have put together because of my personal likes. Here you go: 

  1. Winter breeze; 5 drops Northern Spruce, 5 drops Pine and 2 drops Peppermint.  

With this one I feel like Peppermint gives this blend a crisp smell to it. I feel like I am walking through the woods after a fresh snow fall, not like I would know what that means because of where I live. But I like the idea. 

  2.Fallen Tree; 4 drops Cedarwood, 4 drops Pine, and 4 drops Northern Spruce 

My husband does not like this one as much. He feels it is a bit to plan. For me it reminds me of a walk in the woods after a fresh rain. Now for me I do know what those smells like. It is woodsy and warm. A smell that warms your soul. 

3. Warm cup of hugs; 3 drops orange, 3 drops cinnamon, 2 drops nutmeg, 2 drops of ginger and 2 drops lemon 

This is a long one, but who does not love a good hot cup of tea at the end of the day!? This is one that will warm your house and your heart. It is definitely a warm smell, not as fresh as some. You might also think of it as a fresh baked pie smell. A smell you would have at grandma’s house. 

  4. Afternoon stroll; 3 drops of basil, 3 drops of sage, 3 drops of rosemary and 2 drops of lemon.  

This is one I love all year round. I enjoy the herbal scent. I feel like it brings warmth into my home. I know Micheal is not a big fan, but if I put it off to the side and it is a welcome aroma to the room especially in the afternoon. There are times it reminds me of walking through my garden in late summer or early fall. The earth tones renew my mind and comfort my heart. 

I hope you enjoy these blends like I have. Please let me know if you enjoy them as much as I have. I pray they are a wonderful addition to your collection.  

I would love to hear from you and some of your own blends that you have created. 

 A link to the recipe cards is here. Enjoy!